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How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower

My baby sister is getting married at the end of May, and I couldn’t be more happy for her. A few weeks ago we threw a bridal shower in her honor and the experience taught me a lot about How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower. If you are looking to put together the perfect day for the bride-to-be, be sure to check out my six tips below!

Also, I was so determined to enjoy the day of her shower I forgot to get good pictures of all decor. Oops!

How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower

1. Listen to the Bride’s Requests

My first tip on How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower is to listen to the bride. It seems basic, but the bridal shower is in fact for the bride-to-be. If she is happy with the event, then that’s all you need to worry about. My sister asked for three things: brunch, a balloon arch, and to play jeopardy. She got all three!

2. Plan Ahead of Time

Weddings are usually scheduled a year or more in advance. If you know you will be throwing a bridal shower in a year, don’t put off the planning until a few months prior. Plan ahead of time. Think through themes, foods, and venue options. The more you plan and prepare in advance the less stress you will feel when the day arrives.

How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower

3. Choose 2 Activities

It’s best not to plan too many activities for your guests. I suggest choosing one big activity, like Bridal Jeopardy, and then one or maybe two little activities prior. Keep it simple and fun. Again, get the bride’s input. What games does she like to play? What activity does she definitely NOT want to play? Remember, you will have quite a variety of people attending the shower. Try to choose activities that everyone will enjoy.

4. Less is More

Another helpful tip on How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower is not to overplan. Don’t overwhelm yourself with decorations or pack the schedule with lots of games. People love to mingle and catch up and chat with the bride. Allow time for that. Give your guests a chance to eat without rushing. Less is more.

How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower

5. Ask for Help

When planning a bridal shower, it is important not to do everything all by yourself. You want the day to be perfect, and that’s okay, but you don’t have to be the only one decorating or preparing the games or making food. Delegate tasks to other bridesmaids, family members or friends. People love to spoil the bride. Give them the opportunity to do so!

6. Just Be

When the day of the bridal shower finally arrives, just be. You did it. Everything is decorated and ready to go. Now enjoy the day! If you are a ball of anxiety then other people will be ill at ease, including the bride-to-be. Enjoy this beautiful occasion you put together by taking a deep breath and being present.

Thank you for reading How to Throw a Successful Bridal Shower. I hope I was able to bring you a little help and encouragement. For more about hygge living check out these posts below:

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